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Peace be upon you, and Allah's
mercy and blessings.

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All praise is due to Allah, Lord of
the worlds, and utmost blessings and peace.

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Upon the one sent as a mercy to all
worlds, and all his house and companions.

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Now then, O noble brothers and sisters.

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We continue our discussion about
our Prophet ﷺ with his family.

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And I ask Allah ﷻ to benefit us
through what we say and hear.

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The Prophet ﷺ would allow his wives
to do what was permissible.

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Our mother Aisha (RA) said.

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One day, I saw the Messenger of
Allah ﷺ at the door of his chamber.

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while the Abyssinians were playing
in the mosque.

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They were playing with their spears,
saying this in their language.

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"Muhammad is a righteous man.
Muhammad is a righteous man."

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She said: Abyssinians played
in the mosque.

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and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ
screened me with his cloak.

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so I could watch their play.
Narrated by al-Bukhari.

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In Muslim's version, she said:
"By Allah...".

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By Allah, I saw the Messenger of
Allah ﷺ standing at his chamber door.

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while the Abyssinians played
with spears in the Prophet's Mosque.

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He screened me with his cloak
so I could watch their play.

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Then he would stand for my sake.
That is, remain standing.

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for my sake, not leaving
until I was the one to leave.

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So consider a young girl,
still young and eager for play.

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She (RA) also said:
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ was seated.

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then we heard children's voices.

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The Messenger of Allah ﷺ rose,
and the Abyssinians were performing.

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Meaning, they played and said
in their tongue, 'Muhammad is a good man.'

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He said, 'Aisha,
come and look.'

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Men were playing.
He ﷺ said, 'Aisha, come watch.'

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She said, 'So I came and placed
my cheek on the Prophet's ﷺ shoulder.'

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Then I began watching them
from between his shoulder and head.

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That is, between his shoulder
and ear, looking from behind him.

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And he ﷺ was covering Aisha
(RA) with his cloak.

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He said to me, 'Have you had enough?
Have you had enough?'

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She said, 'I kept saying: no,
I had not had enough.'

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She (RA) said, 'It was to see
my standing with him.'

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And so people could see her status
with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.

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Then Umar appeared.
She said, "The people scattered."

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The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said.

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I can see the devils of men and jinn
have fled from Umar.

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Narrated by al-Tirmidhi,
and authenticated by al-Albani.

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This was on Eid day.
There were Abyssinians, called al-Sudan.

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They played with spears
in the Prophet's Mosque ﷺ, chanting.

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"Muhammad is a righteous man."
"Muhammad is a righteous man."

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Then the Prophet ﷺ said to Aisha,
"Would you like to watch? Come and see."

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So the Prophet ﷺ stood at the door
and screened her with his cloak.

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Then she came up behind the Prophet ﷺ.
And pressed her cheek against his.

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And she looked between

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his ear and shoulder
until she grew tired, RA.

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So he said to her, "Go then."

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The Prophet ﷺ was accommodating
to his family in permissible matters.

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And this is Sunnah.

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It was narrated from Aisha (RA)
that she said.

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The Messenger of Allah ﷺ returned
from an expedition to Tabuk or Khaybar.

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And in her alcove was a curtain,
meaning, a curtain in her room.

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She said: a wind blew and uncovered
one side of the curtain.

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revealing Aisha's dolls.

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Meaning, in the room was an alcove,
like a recess, with a curtain on it.

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A wind blew, and the curtain lifted.

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Then the Prophet ﷺ saw the toys
and said, "What is this, O Aisha?"

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She said, "My dolls."

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And this was girls' play before
these devices came and corrupted people.

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Girls used to play with what suited
girls, and boys with what suited boys.

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Now a girl plays with a boy.
She said, “My dolls.”

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He saw among them a horse
with two wings of cloth scraps.

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He said, “What is this
that I see among them?”

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She said, “A horse.”
She was very young then, RA.

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He said, “And what is on it?”
She said, “Two wings.”

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He said, “A horse with two wings?
A horse that has two wings?”

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She said, “Haven't you heard that
Solomon had winged horses like this?”

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She said, “He laughed till I saw
his molars.” ﷺ.

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Narrated by Abu Dawud
and authenticated by al-Albani.

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Aisha RA said, “I used to play
with dolls.”

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Of course, 'banat' means dolls.

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Girls used to make them until recently.

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They would take a stick, then another
crosswise, as if the top were a head.

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And that meant the hands,
then put a dress on it and play.

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She said: I used to play with dolls
in the Prophet's presence ﷺ.

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Meaning, while I was with
the Prophet ﷺ and was his wife.

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And I had playmates
who used to play with me.

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When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ entered,
they would hide themselves from him.

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When he came or went,
they hid from him in some houses.

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They felt shy before him ﷺ,
for modesty is girls' nature.

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When we saw the Prophet ﷺ come or go,
they would shy away into some houses.

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She said: Then he would send them to me.

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Meaning, he'd call them:
"Come in, come in, come in."

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then they would play with me.
Agreed upon.

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So the Prophet ﷺ would call
the young girls.

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so they would come in and play
with Aisha (RA).

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So he permitted what was lawful
and was gentle with his wives in it.

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as long as the matter was not unlawful.
If his wife wanted it, he'd go along.

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This is part of good companionship
and good character.

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Jabir (RA) said about the Prophet ﷺ
with Aisha (RA):

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The Messenger of Allah ﷺ was
an easygoing man.

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He was easygoing: if she wanted
something, he went along with her.

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Narrated by Muslim in the Sahih.
Part of good conduct is, if a wife asks

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A matter that is not forbidden
and involves no harm.

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The husband should do as she wants
or apologize if he has an excuse.

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And this is what makes life pleasant.

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Though he was the Prophet ﷺ of the
Ummah, he helped his family at home.

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He ﷺ never considered it beneath him.

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He would serve his family
and do housework.

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Al-Aswad said: I asked Aisha (RA).

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What did the Prophet ﷺ do
in his house?

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She said: He would be in his
family's service, serving his family.

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When it was time for prayer,
he went out to pray.

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Look at the balance:
his wife did not distract him from prayer.

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But when he was at home.

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He would serve his family.

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Reported in Sahih al-Bukhari.

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He gave it the chapter heading:
'A man serving his family.'

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Chapter: A man serving his family.
'His family' is also correct.

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And the phrase means
serving his family.

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From the explanation of Adam
ibn Abi Iyas, al-Bukhari's shaykh.

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And from Aisha (RA):
she said, when asked.

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Aisha (RA) was asked:
What did Allah's Messenger ﷺ do at home?

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She said: He was human,
like other human beings.

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He would mend his clothes,
milk his sheep, and serve himself.

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Ahmad narrated it.
Al-Albani graded it sahih.

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'Urwah (RA) said: I asked Aisha,
O Mother of the Believers.

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What would the Messenger of Allah ﷺ
do when he was with you? She said:

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What any of you does in serving
his family.

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He mended his sandals, sewed
his garment, and patched his bucket.

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Related by Ibn Hibban.
Authenticated by al-Albani.

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Ibn Battal said: Al-Muhallab said.

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This was among his actions ﷺ
as an act of humility.

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and prescribed that
for his community.

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So it is from the Sunnah—
and he continued:

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So it is from the Sunnah
for a person to do his own chores.

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at home, in what he needs
for the affairs of worldly life.

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Ibn Hajar said.

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And in another narration,
Harithah ibn Abi al-Rijal from 'Amrah.

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from Aisha, in Abu Sa'd's narration.

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He was the gentlest of people.

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And the most generous of people.

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He was a man like your men.

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Except that he was always smiling.

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He ﷺ was the gentlest in his home
and the most generous of people.

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And he was a man among men.

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But he was all smiles, all smiles,
meaning, he smiled often.

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Manliness does not mean scowling.

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Manliness does not mean scowling.

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The Prophet ﷺ was always smiling.

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So the Prophet ﷺ—though he was
the Prophet ﷺ and was elderly.

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He ﷺ used to help his family
in the house.

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So this is from the Sunnah,
from kindness, and good conduct.

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that a man help his wife at home
with whatever he can do well.

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Even if he did only a little,
it would bring much joy.

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If he were to lift up a plate.

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and put it back in its place
in the kitchen.

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that would greatly delight the wife.

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And the Prophet ﷺ openly declared
his love for Aisha (RA) by name.

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Amr ibn al-As (RA) reported.

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The Prophet ﷺ sent him in command
of the army of Dhat al-Salasil.

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He said, I came to him and asked,
"Who among the people is dearest to you?"

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He said, "Aisha."
I asked, "Then who among the men?"

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He said, "Her father."
He did not say, "Abu Bakr."

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This was gentleness from him ﷺ.
To bring joy to Aisha's heart (RA).

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He said, "Her father." I asked,
"Then who?"

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He said, "Then Umar ibn al-Khattab,"
and he named other men.

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Narrated by al-Bukhari
in the Sahih.

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Some men.

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Some men withhold from their wives
a word of affection, kindness, and love.

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even at home,
let alone outside the home.

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Those who deal with family issues.

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They find that one of today's greatest
problems is emotional dryness.

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A woman needs
a tender, gentle heart.

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And a gentle tongue.
She needs to hear it from her husband.

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Some men say love is action.
And that is true.

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But the tongue expresses it.

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For women, such words have an effect.

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This is part of kindness
and perfection in a man.

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When needed, he openly declares
his love for his wife.

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When he is with his wife, he shows
his affection and love in word and deed.

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The Prophet ﷺ would honor
his offspring.

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We have now finished the examples
of how he was with his wives.

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We now move to how he was
with his offspring.

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The Prophet ﷺ honored his offspring.

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He played with them and
brought them joy.

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Aisha, Mother of the Believers (RA), said.

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I never saw anyone more like
Allah's Messenger ﷺ in conduct

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and in bearing, rising, and sitting
than Fatimah, his daughter.

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By Allah, we love her.
May Allah be pleased and please her.

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She said: Whenever she came to
the Prophet ﷺ, he stood for her.

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He kissed her and seated her
in his seat.

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And when the Prophet ﷺ came
to her, she rose from her seat.

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She kissed him and seated him
in her seat.

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Abu Dawud and Tirmidhi reported it;
al-Albani graded it sahih.

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Look at the Prophet's ﷺ gentleness
with his daughter.

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When she entered and came to him,
he ﷺ stood up for her.

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He kissed her
and seated her in his place.

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And she did the same with the
Prophet ﷺ when he came to her.

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Aishah (RA) said:
Fatimah came walking.

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As though her gait was the gait
of the Prophet ﷺ.

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The Prophet ﷺ said:
"Welcome, my daughter."

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"Welcome, my daughter,"
then seated her on his right or left.

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Agreed upon. He would stand for her,
kiss her, and honor her in the gathering.

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He welcomed her as she liked:
"Welcome, my daughter."

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Abdullah ibn Shaddad narrated
from his father, who said.

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The Messenger of Allah ﷺ came
out to us in 1 of the 2 night prayers.

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while carrying Hasan or Husayn.

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The Messenger of Allah ﷺ came
forward and set him down.

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Then he said the takbir
for prayer and prayed.

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In the middle of the prayer,
he made one prostration and prolonged it.

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That is, longer than the others.
My father said, so I raised my head.

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I feared something had happened
to the Prophet ﷺ.

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He said, So I raised my head.

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and saw the child on the back
of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ in sujud.

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So I returned to my prostration.
When the Prophet ﷺ finished the prayer.

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The people said, O Messenger of
Allah, you prostrated in prayer.

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It was a prostration you prolonged
till we thought something happened.

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Or that revelation came to you.

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He said: Nothing happened;
no revelation came to me.

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"But my son climbed onto
my back."

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"So I disliked hurrying him
until he was done."

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Allah is greatest.
He was leading the people in prayer.

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When Hasan and Husayn
got onto his back.

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The Prophet ﷺ held still
and prostrated longer.

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Why?
He did not want to hurry him.

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He was not afraid he would fall.
No, he did not want to hurry him.

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He prolonged his prostration
because the boy was playing.

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A child likes to climb onto
his father's back, for example.

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So the Prophet ﷺ disliked
hurrying him. Picture this, brothers.

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If one of us were an imam
or a follower in prayer.

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and put his son beside him,
then in prostration, he climbed on him.

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Allah knows best: he would throw him
off while praying.

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And when the prayer was over,
may Allah help the boy.

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Indeed, the Prophet ﷺ,
while he was leading.

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would lengthen the prostration only
because he ﷺ disliked rushing.

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al-Hasan or al-Husayn until
he had finished what he wanted.

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in his play on the Prophet ﷺ's back.

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Narrated by al-Nasa'i
and authenticated by al-Albani.

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Abu Qatadah al-Ansari said:
I saw the Prophet ﷺ leading the people

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with Umamah bint Abi al-'As.

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She was Zaynab's daughter,
the Prophet ﷺ's granddaughter.

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on his shoulder—
the Prophet ﷺ's shoulder.

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When he bowed,
he put her on the ground.

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When he rose from prostration, he put
her back onto the Prophet ﷺ's shoulder.

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Narrated by Muslim.
His children.

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The Prophet ﷺ led them
in prayer.

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He ﷺ kept her on his shoulder
while praying; when bowing, set her down.

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When he stood, he lifted her again
onto his shoulder ﷺ.

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Abu Hurayrah (RA) said.

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The Prophet ﷺ used to stick out
his tongue to Hasan ibn Ali.

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What is yudalli'?
Showing his tongue.

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The Prophet ﷺ would stick out
his tongue to Hasan ibn Ali.

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The child would see the redness
of his tongue and rush to him.

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Reported by al-Baghawi.
Al-Albani said in al-Sahihah.

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It was narrated by Abu al-Shaykh
Ibn Hibban.

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in the book The Prophet's ﷺ
Character and Etiquette.

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He also mentioned it in the book
Akhlaq al-Nabi ﷺ wa Adabihi.

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He cited its chain and said,
"This is a hasan chain."

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Whenever the Prophet ﷺ saw
al-Hasan (RA), he stuck out his tongue.

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When a child saw the redness
of the Prophet's ﷺ tongue, he'd rush.

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This is what the Prophet ﷺ did
in front of the people.

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Ibn Mas'ud (RA) said:
The Prophet ﷺ would pray.

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while al-Hasan and al-Husayn
would jump on his back.

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Al-Hasan and al-Husayn
would pass by, and people moved them away.

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Then the Prophet ﷺ said,
"Leave them."

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By their father and my mother,
whoever loves me must love these two.

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And we ask Allah ﷻ to witness
that we love them.

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Ibn Hibban narrated it.
Al-Albani: hasan.

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The Prophet ﷺ would pray
a voluntary prayer.

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Then al-Hasan would come
when he prostrated and climb on his back.

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Al-Husayn too would come
and climb on his back in sajdah.

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So people would move them away
as people usually do with children.

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When he finished the first prayer
the Prophet ﷺ said, "Leave them both."

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"Leave them both." This is the
Prophet ﷺ in prayer, not idle.

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Anas ibn Malik said: The Prophet ﷺ
played with Zaynab, Umm Salama's daughter.

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He would say, "O Zuwaynib, O Zuwaynib."
Again and again.

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Al-Diya recorded it in
al-Mukhtarah; Al-Albani: sahih.

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And from Abu Hurayrah RA.

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He said: I went out with the
Messenger of Allah ﷺ for part of the day.

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He did not speak to me,
nor I to him, until Banu Qaynuqa's market.

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This is the wording I have.
Then he turned away.

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until he came to Fatimah's tent.

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He said: Is the boy here?
Is the boy here?

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meaning al-Hasan.

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He said, we thought his mother
was only keeping him back.

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to wash him and dress him,
but he soon came running.

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until each of them embraced
the other.

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Then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said.

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"O Allah, I love him, so love him,
and love whoever loves him."

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Reported by Muslim in Sahih Muslim.
The Prophet ﷺ used to ask.

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Is the little rascal there?
meaning: al-Hasan; he wanted him.

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When al-Hasan came out to him,
the Prophet ﷺ embraced him.

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And al-Hasan embraced
the Prophet ﷺ.

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The Prophet ﷺ used to kiss
al-Hasan and al-Husayn.

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It was narrated from
Abu Hurayrah RA that he said.

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The Messenger of Allah ﷺ kissed
al-Hasan ibn Ali.

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And al-Aqra' ibn Habis
al-Tamimi was sitting with him.

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Al-Aqra' said, 'I have ten children,
and I have not kissed any of them.'

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The Messenger of Allah ﷺ looked
at him, then said.

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Who shows no mercy
will be shown none.

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Agreed upon.

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And it was narrated from
Ya'la ibn Murrah.

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They went out with the Prophet ﷺ
after being invited to a meal.

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Then Husayn was playing
in the street.

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He said: The Prophet ﷺ went ahead
of the people and stretched out his hands.

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The boy kept running away from him,
here and there.

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The Prophet ﷺ kept amusing him
until he caught him.

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Then he put one hand
under his chin, and the other

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on top of his head,
then kissed him.

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Ibn Majah narrated it.
Al-Albani: hasan.

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When the Prophet ﷺ saw him
in the street, he did as kind men do

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when they see a child, they come
as if they want to catch him.

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The child goes this way and that.
This is what he ﷺ did.

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The Prophet ﷺ would play with him
and make him laugh.

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Part of the Prophet's ﷺ conduct
with his family was this.

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He would correct them.

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He would teach them, raise them,
and command them to obey.

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Aisha (RA) said:
I said to the Prophet ﷺ.

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“Safiyyah is such-and-such.”
Meaning: she was short.

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He said, “You have uttered
a word.

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If mixed with the sea's water,
it would contaminate it.”

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She said, “I mimicked
someone for him.”

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He said, “I would not like
to mimic anyone for such-and-such.”

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Narrated by Abu Dawud.
Also in Sahih al-Jami'.

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If the Prophet ﷺ learned that
one of his household had lied.

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He would keep turning away from them
until they repented of it.

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Al-Albani: authentic.

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Aisha RA said:
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to me.

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'O Aisha, beware of minor sins.
For Allah will call them to account.'

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Narrated by Ahmad and Ibn Majah.
Authenticated by al-Albani.

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Women need reminding of this grave matter.
Indeed, everyone needs it.

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This issue is dangerous, brothers.
It is being lax with minor sins.

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Some do what is unlawful. If told,
they say, 'Brother, it's not major.'

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This has become common in our time.
And even more so among women.

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Some women, when told:
'Don't do this; it's not allowed.'

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She says, 'Major?'
Meaning: 'If it's major, yes, I'll stop.'

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But if it's minor,
there's no harm; I'll do it.

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The Prophet ﷺ taught Aisha (RA)
and warned her, saying, 'O Aisha...'

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"Aisha, beware of petty deeds,
for they have a claimant with Allah."

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That is how a husband should be.
That is how a father should be.

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He warns against sins, minor and major.

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Especially the matter of being lax
about minor sins.

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Aisha (RA) said: The Messenger of
Allah ﷺ used to pray at night.

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When he prayed witr, he would say.
"Get up and pray witr, Aisha."

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Muslim narrated it in the Sahih.
He told Aisha (RA) to obey and pray witr.

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He used to pray eleven rak'ahs at night.

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When he prayed witr, he woke Aisha
(RA) and said, 'Rise, Aisha, pray witr.'

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Aisha RA narrated that the Messenger
of Allah ﷺ said to her.

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"O Aisha, protect yourself from the
Fire, even with half a date."

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"For it satisfies the hungry as much
as it satisfies the full."

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Reported by Ahmad and graded hasan
by al-Albani.

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The Prophet ﷺ used to command
Aisha to do every good.

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He would say, "O Aisha,
protect yourself from the Fire."

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How much we all need someone
to remind us of this, especially women.

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For most of the people of the Fire
are women.

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Ali RA narrated: Allah's Messenger ﷺ
came to Ali and Fatimah, his own daughter.

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One night, he said: "Will you not pray?
Will you not rise at night to pray?"

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I said, O Messenger of Allah,
our souls are in Allah's hand.

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If He wills to wake us, He wakes us.

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He turned away when we said that
and did not reply to me.

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Then I heard him as he left
striking his thigh and saying.

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"But man is ever most
quarrelsome." Narrated by al-Bukhari.

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The Prophet ﷺ instructed them,
his own family, to pray at night.

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Ali (RA) said: The matter
is in Allah's hand.

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And our souls are in Allah's hand.
If He wills, He withholds them.

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If He wills, He releases them,
then we rise and pray.

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And this was a kind of argument.
The Prophet ﷺ did not reply to him.

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And he left, reciting this verse.

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Anas ibn Malik reported that
the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said.

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"O Fatimah, what prevents you
from hearing what I advise you?"

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"What prevents you from hearing
what I advise you?"

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"To say in the morning
and in the evening."

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"O Ever-Living, O Sustainer,
in Your mercy I seek relief."

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Set right all my affairs for me,
and do not leave me

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to myself for the blink
of an eye.

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By al-Bazzar, al-Nasa'i in al-Kubra,
and al-Hakim; graded hasan by al-Albani.

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So the Prophet ﷺ says to Fatimah,
one of his household—his daughter.

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"O Fatimah, what prevents you
from hearing what I advise you?"

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"That you say such and such."
The Prophet ﷺ used to teach his family.

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guide them to what is good
and command them to obey.

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The Prophet ﷺ corrected them
if they erred. So should a man.

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A man should be gentle in conduct
guiding to the religion of Allah ﷻ.

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He strives to shield his family
from the Fire.

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He teaches them.
When he learns, he teaches them.

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If he gains a benefit,
he shares it with his family.

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And he commands them to good.

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As a command of obligation
or recommendation, as warranted.

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And he reproves their wrongdoing.

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He strives to help guide them.

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Perhaps we should stop here
and pray Maghrib, Allah willing.

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Then return for the final session.
Allah willing, we will speak in it.

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About the Prophet ﷺ.
With his Companions. May Allah aid all.

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Allah Most High knows best.
May Allah bless our Prophet ﷺ.